Precepts of Hakulit Life Coaching
Don'ts
Never impose your worldviews, value systems or social conditioning.
Never think you can know another's truth from your vantage point. You can only learn it from them.
Do not engage in analyses as other counseling systems do. One cannot understand a being as vast as the cosmos having a human experience, to try would be arrogant disrespect.
Do not think that you need to answer questions, only to ask them. Your client will bring the answers to you.
The Hakulit system for obtaining guidance, does not address physical symptoms, but rather addresses the underlying psychological, emotional and mental roots of the symptoms.
Remove the obsession (of most coaches) to fix and save. Acknowledge that that which causes opposition and heartache, is merely ourselves getting in the way of the inexorable unfolding of perfection through our lives.
It is damaging for both you and your client, to have any personal agenda with your client.
Do's
Remember, you are a catalyst of self-knowledge, not an arrogant purveyor of belief systems.
Remember that the level of consciousness of yourself or your client is exactly perfect for each of you. Not all notes always play during a musical piece – it would create discordance.
Learn to assimilate rather than hear. Only in complete silence of the mind can you enter into the empathic understanding of another.
If you engage in analyses, you will have thoughts in your head. You cannot hear and assimilate your client's communication when you have an internal dialogue.
Do not instruct on what to do, but how to do it. Hakulit Life Coaches Should Know:
How to interpret the 12 shallow states of dreaming - see Labyrinth of the Moon. This book is a valuable tool to assist your client in eliminating past life influences on present circumstances.
From the same book, know how to use The Poetry of Dreaming to help clients interpret the 12 deeper states that do not utilize dream symbols.
The symbols clients encounter during meditation can also be interpreted through these tools.
The 3 Yogas of Illumination: Irash Satva Yoga, Shrihat Satva Yoga and Saradesi Satva Yoga help release past trauma and increase the flow of resources. Increased resources are required to access non-cognitive answers within, in order to help resolve problems.
In the client's choice of words, he or she will reveal their own answers. Listen to anything that stands out in what the client says or does from the moment he or she comes through your door.
Any client revealing issues to you is mirroring something within yourself. This is why you have come to learn, not to teach.
Mirrors reflect what we judge, what we have lost, what we have to learn, what needs to be healed through perception, what we blame ourselves and others for, and what we need to overcome.
The only proactive way in which we may try and "shape" our client's life, is to change what they mirror to us within, and watch the resulting miracle of our client's problems solve themselves as a result.
The necessity for us to change ourselves by observing what the client is mirroring, means that our work does not end with the counseling session.
Knowledge of the sub-personalities of man and their routes of communication among one another is essential in order to understand the true persona of your client beyond the façade of personality.
Take time to feel the love, praise and gratitude for your client, who is your teacher.
